Friday, September 10, 2010
Nine Years
While having a very quiet and relaxed Friday evening (hubby's in Vegas), glass of wine in hand, I started to think about about tomorrow. Nine years ago tomorrow, the world as we all knew it changed forever. On September 11th, 2001, we all watched in shock as terrorism hit our homeland like we'd never seen it before. I'll always distinctly remember that day with utmost clarity, as I'm sure most people do. As a first semester freshman at the time- I remember being in shock, with all my dorm mates, not really knowing for sure what all of this meant. It took years for it to really hit me. In a sense, a lot of people my age, and I suppose of all ages, lost a lot of innocence that day. I had no idea such a thing could happen. Although it is important to remember that day, I always find it difficult to watch the footage. It was a day that far too many people lost their lives for no other fact than for simply being American. It was also a day where we all came together and ordinary people did extraordinary things to save each other's lives.
As I drove home from work today, I cruised along La Jolla Blvd noticing many more American flags out than normal. I thought of my husband, family and friends that I'm so blessed to have. I thought of the brave servicemen and women who put themselves in harms way to defend freedom.
I know I am grateful and proud to be an American everyday, but I will especially feel that pride tomorrow.
Thursday, July 29, 2010
Baking with Kara
Ingredients
- 3/4 cup SPLENDA® Sugar Blend
- 3/4 cup flax seed meal
- 5 ripe bananas, mashed
- 1/4 cup skim milk
- 1/4 cup low-fat sour cream
- 2 teaspoons egg whites
- 2 cups whole wheat flour
- 1 teaspoon baking soda
- 1/2 teaspoon salt
Directions
- Preheat the oven to 350 degrees F (175 degrees C). Grease and a 9x5 inch loaf pan.
- In a medium bowl, mix together the sugar blend, flax meal, bananas, milk, sour cream and egg whites until well blended. Combine the flour, baking soda and salt; stir into the banana mixture until moistened. Spoon into prepared loaf pan.
- Bake for 1 hour and 10 minutes in the preheated oven, or until a toothpick inserted into the crown of the loaf comes out clean.
Sunday, July 25, 2010
Off to the Races!
Wednesday, July 14, 2010
A Snapshot of Our First Year
Sunday, July 11, 2010
Happy Anniversary to Us!
Happy Anniversary to Us!
Tuesday, July 6, 2010
And I'm Back...
Bermuda is my parent’s favorite place in the world. They went there on their honeymoon and have been coming back steadily for 40 years. My dad, in particular, is a Bermuda nutcase. He truly believes for that one week a year he is a Bermuda native, loving “his” island for all its glory. He loves the beaches, the clear water, the drinks, the family time but most of all he loves to ride his scooter (i.e. mopad). I’m quite certain that “Born to be Wild” is playing on repeat in his head as flies like the wind around the curvy, narrow roads of the island for hours at a time, each year clocking his mileage and keeping a record to try to beat every visit. This year, early Sunday morning a bunch of us took off to navigate the WHOLE island, a feat that takes about 3 hours to complete. My butt was numb and I was a little sunburned by the end, but I loved to see my Dad so happy! His love for Bermuda is contagious and has obviously been passed on to me.
There were too many funny stories and happy times to share in a blog post so I'll keep it short. Mike and I couldn’t thank my parents enough for sharing with us this beautiful island experience. It was an amazing time with family!
While being at home before and after the Bermuda trip, it was also such a pleasure to hang with the McDermott family, especially for the 4th of July. In true McDermott fashion, they were able to throw together an amazing spread of food and drinks the morning of deciding to host a BBQ as if it was nothing. If that was me, I’d be so stressed out hosting people with such short notice or planning!
It was also nice to enjoy the top layer of our wedding cake about two weeks early at their house, remembering our amazing wedding day that took place almost a year ago. I can’t believe on Sunday Mike will be my husband of ONE YEAR…but that is a post for another time …Sunday, June 6, 2010
Counting down the days...
Thursday, May 27, 2010
It's A Boy!!
Monday, May 24, 2010
Birthday Weekend!
Sunday, May 16, 2010
Home Is Where the Heart Is
Sunday, April 18, 2010
Sunday=Farmer's Market Day!
Sunday, April 11, 2010
Spring Break '10
Thursday, April 8, 2010
San Diego Rocks!
That brings us to today. I'm at work and about an hour ago, I start to feel some shaking! Again, nothing too big or scary but needless to say, my client site building doesn't seem to be the most stable of buildings so I was a little freaked out. I think I heard someone say that it was a 5.5 earthquake that hit somewhere in Mexico.
I've decided after the last few days that I should brush up on my earthquake safety tips- especially considering the extent of my knowledge comes from that Saved by the Bell episode where there was an earthquake and Zack is stuck in the elevator with Mr. Belding's wife and ends up delivering the baby in the elevator. Was there anything that Zack Morris couldn't do?
Anyways, I guess this just shows that San Diego rocks in many ways and for many reasons! :)
Monday, March 22, 2010
Reunited and it feels so good
On the weekend on March 12 and 13 I had the great privilege to spend some real quality time with three of my best friends- Kathleen, Charlotte and Nikki. The four of us lived together our sophomore year in college and dubbed ourselves Chi Kappa Nu- our sorority girl mentality coming out with Chi= Charlotte, Kappa= Kara/Kathleen and Nu= Nikki. I know, we were awfully clever.
What a great reunion it was! I don’t think there was a moment that we were not laughing, teasing each other or reminiscing about our glory days at good old Radford. I love that although the four of us haven’t gotten to spend time together just the four of us in years, it was like not a moment had passed as soon as we were together.
We had tons of fun in Hollywood, but had the most fun impersonating Jimmy Fallon’s skit of “Robert Patterson is Bothered” (http://www.robertisbothered.com/) …in a tree…in the middle of a posh lounge.
Other highlights from the weekend:
- Going to the top Mulholland Drive to look down on the LA skyline and of course the Hollywood sign.
- Watching Kat trying on wedding dresses. I think Martin might just fall over when he sees how beautiful she will look coming down the aisle. Definitely brought a few tears to my eyes (shocking, I know!) to see Kat preparing for such an important and special day.
So glad we could reunite, Chi Kappa Nu. Can’t wait for next time!
Oh and you may be wondering where my hubby was for all of this?? Don’t worry- he was doing it up big in Vegas! :)
Thursday, March 4, 2010
So Hollywood
Last weekend, Mike and I celebrated his 28th birthday in style. On a whim, we decided last minute that his b-day celebration was going to take place in Hollywood, and that we were going to do it up right. And so we did, and Mike had a birthday that was just so….well, soooo Hollywood.
We stayed the W on Hollywood Blvd. Amazing. The hotel was gorgeous- modern and super posh- and we couldn’t help but notice all the beautiful people. The wanna-be actors, models, singers, ect…SO Hollywood!
We went out to dinner at the Geisha House. It is a trendy spot a couple blocks down from the W. It had a great vibe and the place was packed. The food was delicious (although a bit overpriced in my humble opinion) and we had a great dinner and enjoyed sharing some sake as well. The best part was the dessert. Crispy wontons with some sort of cheesecake-type filling and a fried bananas dish. We loved it!
Our next stop was to The Kress- another trendy place where we stopped to get some extra dirty martinis. We lounged and enjoyed people watching; especially when we saw what we thought was a prostitute with some little geeky guy. Kind of weird/gross…but SO Hollywood!
Our last stop was back to our hotel. The lobby turns into “The Living Room” at night and is essentially a chic lounge and bar. As we walked up to the door there was a guy holding a clip board and had just turned away a group from going in, for no apparent reason. We promptly showed him our room key and after apologizing for the wait and welcoming us back, he removed the velvet rope to let us through. WE were SO Hollywood!
The next day we checked out and went to the Lakers vs. the Nuggets game. Of course the birthday boy enjoyed that probably a little more than I did- but we had a lot of fun. After that, we returned to our not-so-glamorous (but still super cool) lives in La Jolla.
I loved celebrating Mike’s birthday in a special way. HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY LOVE!
Tuesday, February 16, 2010
All You Need Is Love
As John Lennon and the Beatles once said, “all you need is love”. I don’t think there could ever be a truer statement. Whether it is love of a significant other, love for your friends, family or even the unconditional love from a pet. Love is what makes the world a brighter, more beautiful place.
That song has a special place in my heart because at our wedding ceremony, just over 7 months ago, Mike hand fed nearly our whole reception our wedding cake. I think that was his way of showing his love on our special day :)
Mike and I spent our first Valentine’s Day together as husband and wife this past weekend and had a wonderful day. We found a new path in our neighborhood that lead us directly into the La Jolla farmer’s market. It was awesome. We ate a romantic dinner of chicken parmesan, made by Chef Mike, drank champagne and just enjoyed each other.
The following day, February 15, I received some bad news. My Grandma Zanzal had passed away. While I know it is for the best and was relieved that she didn’t have to suffer anymore, I still couldn’t help from being overwhelmed with grief. Until her dying day, my grandmother spoke openly and often about wanting to be with my grandfather, her love for over 50 years, in heaven. If that isn’t true love, I don’t know what is.
I leave for Connecticut on Thursday to be surrounded by the love and warmth of my family as we say good-bye to the beloved matriarch of our family. I’m positive that my Grandmother will be looking down on us and hopefully realizing how loved she is and how much she’ll truly be missed.
Sunday, February 14, 2010
Martinis for All
It is always so much fun to have visitors, and trust me, we’ve had A LOT in the last 6 months that we’ve lived here in San Diego :) I was especially excited for the Peterson’s to come because I knew it was a special trip for them. This was the first time they had left their adorable 13 month old baby, Lily, for more than a night or so. Although I would have loved to have Lily to visit, it was an exciting time for the new parents to have a strictly adult vacation. Not surprisingly, we had a ridiculously good time. We always do with the Peterson’s- that is just the type of people they are. I think Lauren and I giggled and laughed more than 90% of the time that they were here and her husband Mike was living up his vacation to the fullest, as he should. He proved to be an amazing martini maker (extra dirty) and my Mike enjoyed his first “mart”, proclaiming it “made his body feel all warm”. I guess that meant he liked it!
Not only did we enjoy some amazing food and drinks but we did a lot of outdoorsy stuff throughout the WEEK. Yes, a whole week….yay for “snowtorious BIG”, “Snowbe Bryant”, “Alexander Snowvichken” and the others for making them have to stay! Anyways, we went to Torrey Pines and did the beach trail, climbed the 6 miles Iron Mountain, enjoyed the sunset with champagne, walked around downtown and did some bike riding.
I’m going to keep this short, because really I could go on and on about the funny things that happened and the good times we had. I’ll wrap it up by just saying we are so very blessed to have friends like Lauren and Mike. We’ve have so many great memories with them and we are looking forward to making more as the years go on!
Check out some double Indo boarding action...after some Super Bowl drinks:
Saturday, January 30, 2010
Adventures in Snowboarding
Last weekend was another first for Mike and I in our new home in California: snowboarding at Big Bear Mountain. We joined the snowboarding experts and our good friends, Kat and Martin, for a winter wonderland weekend that promised to be.....well, an adventure. We hit the road and after a couple hours got to the mountain and had to put the snow chains on our tires. Apparently, this was a HUGE weekend for snow up there- 4 feet in about 4 or 5 days!
The trek up the mountain was nerve-wracking. Mike stayed cool and didn’t seem to care that people were stuck or skidded out on either side of us. We chugged along. I texted Kathleen, who was behind us by about 15 minutes “This is such an adventure!”......then we got stuck. We somehow skidded out because the people in front of us stopped (you can’t do that going straight up a mountain!) and our back tires just could not get out of the snow. Luckily, Martin/Kat saw us and stopped to help. As did some other poor souls stranded like us. Thanks to them, and Mike’s tireless efforts, we got out and victoriously made our way to our house. Martin and Mike called their inner manual laborers and worked hard to shovel our drive way. We were in our cute little cottage and ready to get settled in!
The house was quaint and cute- but the owners clearly had a crazy fetish with bears. They were everywhere! I get it, “Big Bear”...but come on, it was nuts.
After a good dinner and couple drinks, we hit the hay. Not far into the early morning hours, we heard an alarm. We didn’t smell smoke. Martin investigated and realized it was the carbon monoxide alarm going off. Great. The silent killer. Not the way we want to start our weekend! We took the batteries out and plugged it back in and it didn’t go off again. Still, I couldn’t help but image that my chest was feeling tight and my breathing was out of rhythm. When morning broke, we realized we made it through the night, sans carbon monoxide poising.
Putting our somewhat rocky night behind us- we were ready to hit the slopes. It was gorgeous! I loved the trees covered with snow! I was going to drag Mike to a snowboard lesson with me but it didn’t start until later that afternoon. We decided to just go for it; keep in mind I had NEVER snowboarded before in my life. It was rough. I fell get off the lift as I was getting off and almost got hit in the head by the chair, it took me about 45 minutes to get down the bunny slope and I did that basically in a crab crawl because I couldn’t get up. After my lesson it was much better! Mike was really pretty good at “shredding” down the mountain and I think this may become yet another sports hobby of his.
After some soaking in the hot tub, and delicious dinner made by Kathleen (that only took 2.5 hours to make!) and some wine we put our tired and sore bodies to bed.
So despite some adventures, we made it through our first snowboarding weekend and had an amazing time. We definitely had a good time laughing at some of the mishaps, but that’s what makes life interesting :)
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
Torrey Pines is more than a golf course
Wednesday, January 13, 2010
For your viewing pleasure...
Sunday, January 10, 2010
East Coast Christmas
Although we’ve settled in quite nicely in our new home in San Diego, we lived in Northern VA for our whole lives so I was so excited to head “home” for the holidays. It was great to get to spend some quality time with both our families and our friends. We planned it so we could be home for a good long time, work a little and not have to be rushed to see everyone that we miss so dearly.
We started our trip by heading down to North Carolina for Mike’s godparents daughter’s wedding. It was our first wedding since our own and I really enjoyed it. Diana actually read one of the readings that was read at our wedding and boy did that bring on the tears for me. It made me think of standing up there that day, in front of all of our loved ones, taking our vows...I was beyond excited for Stephen and Cari because I knew what an amazing night they had ahead of them. The wedding was a blast!
Christmas Eve and Christmas at the McDermotts was a great time- very relaxed and cozy, spending a lot of time by the fire. In a McDermott tradition we made Krumcagga (sp??)- a Norwegian cookie that Diana’s mom and grandmother used to make. She actually still has the sheet of paper with the recipes handwritten from her grandmother. Very neat. Of course we all got wonderful gifts and the McDermotts were far too generous, as always!
We rang in the New Year with a close group of friends over at Jaime and Pat’s house. Thanks for hosting guys, it was exactly the type of NYE I was looking for! A little champagne, some cupcakes, Wii, and watching Jersey Shore...a great time! I can’t believe it was the end of a decade. I can’t wait for what the next decade may bring!
Next up was “Valluzzomas”, or Valluzzo Christmas. It was quite entertaining having all the little ones together, and with Abby mobile now too- it was pretty much utter ciaos (in a good way.) The 3 older girls were hilarious wearing their high heels and switching out dress up outfits everyday. Mike and I really loved the time we got to spend with our siblings drinking, eating and testing our trivia knowledge at Time’s Up. Thank you to my parents for also being far too generous!!